Several years ago, I read an excellent book on the subject of risk-taking. It was entitled "The Young Millionaires", and it contained the true-life stories of eighteen individuals, each of whom had earned in excess of one million dollars. In fact, some of these people had actually earned many millions of dollars, over and above the one million dollar mark, during the course of their highly successful careers. Throughout the book, the author made many interesting observations about the "law of financial success", but the most important one, was the one which he kept coming back to: namely, although these individuals came from a variety of different backgrounds, and although each had earned their money in a different way, they all shared one thing in common.
"What was that one thing?" you ask. Simply put it was this - even though everything they owned was riding on the outcome of virtually every major business decision which they made, none of them considered themselves to be taking "risks". The reason they didn't, he went on to explain, was because they were living their lives, "as though it were impossible to fail!"
source: Bob Proctor
Monday, June 25, 2007
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Interesting concept. However that may be true I would also bet that there's a lot of optimistic people that truly believe they are the best at what they do yet they're not successful. I guess my point is that while an optimistic mindframe is an essential ingredient it's not as if you could will your way to succeed by just thinking it even if you're working your hardest at it. Luck, etc. plays a large role also in my opinion even though we'd like to think it's mainly perseverance etc. Therefore I look at success as basically a numbers and probability game -- if you try enough different things then at some point you'll succeed if you don't go bankrupt before then.
I guess the above diatribe is a reflection of my own life and the pain/stress I've gone through to try to succeed in life whether it's creating my own business, trading, etc. I'm not yet successful and I think I've pretty much done as much as I can physically and mentally although one can always argue that you can do more. However I'm just burnt out from chasing the almighty dollar. I'm writing this the first day of my 2nd real vacation I've had in a looong time and even though I'm in a decent place I've never been before and a nice hotel I'm still not happy. Need to find a way to just let go and relax... sometimes good things happen to you when you're not actively chasing it. Sort of like girls -- when you've given up the chase then all of a sudden they're all over you :)
Sorry for the long rambling comment...
Reno,
Thanks for the great comment. It seems as if you believe in everything we've discussed here and your life is just operating on a slightly different time frame than you expected. It's easy for me to talk all this stuff when life is going my way...the challenge is when life seems to be kicking us while we're down. It is these times where it's hard to stay positive. This is why it's so important to drive these qualities into our minds during peace time so to speak. Do you like who you are? If so, tell yourself each day. Sounds kinda corny at times but what a huge tool to have in the toolbox when we breakdown. What are your goals? Have you written them down in detail with a deadline attached to them. If not, they're just great ideas at the moment. Do you pray to God or a higher power that you trust? If so, focus on thanking Him for the great things in life you do have, like the opportunity to vacation. How many books do you read to keep you motivated? Reno, you sound like you have it mostly together and you're at the point where most people throw in the towel and give up. Your character is being tested and you must keep swinging the bat at every pitch...every single pitch. And swing with all your might. You know as well as I do that eventually you'll start hitting them out of the park.
Hang in there. Take 30 minutes a day until you're out of this rut to pray and think about what will pull you out of this ditch you're in. Failure is simply a temporary event and tomorrow is a new day. And by the way, I don't believe in luck. Everything happens for a reason. Right now you are becoming a stronger person because of your journey. There's no such thing as a smooth mountain. If you intend to climb up in life you will encounter bumps along the way. The only way you'll get distracted on these bumps is if you take your eyes off your goals.
Hope this helps...email me and let's talk more. rich@thestockschool.com
Now go enjoy your vacation. Life always gets better, always.
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